Blog,  Hearth & Health,  In the Home - Organisation

KonMari and Culling Books

cull books 5


In my previous post KonMari and Large Families I shared the desperation that led me to ‘listen’ to KonMari, how I adapted this method to met a large family’s needs and to what degree I ‘let go’ of many items in our home. It took us a week to blitz the whole house leaving the books till last.  My ‘letting go’ muscles were by now well flexed and it was time to cull our books, all eight thousand of them. How did I do it, what questions did I ask and how did I let go?


Our library is a collection gathered over years, many are inherited from my mother, gifted after she finished homeschooling and her lifestyle changed, most non-fiction are remnants of the season we ran a DK Home Learning business, the majority are from local book sales where all children’s books are free, the odd one from friends, and a smaller number have been purchased.  In preparation for roofing half our home, then gutting it, all of the books were moved out of the library and relocated in the other half of our home. Whilst what books could be placed back into bookcases were, the books from the high shelving were sitting in towering piles about the house, obviously we couldn’t live like this for months, the realistic time for a rebuild of the gutted home. It was apparent it was time to undertake a serious cull.


cull books 4


Aside from the homeless book state, for some time I had been conscious that the sheer volume of books was resulting in the children overlooking treasures as they were hidden amongst the mass.  Many wonderful favourites the older children had read, the middle and younger children were not even aware of, obviously this state of affairs had to change. In preparation for culling books the critical component is actually being willing to relinquish them, for bibliophiles particularly it takes time to arrive at this point. In my desperation I was ready to part with books but needed direction, thanks to my friend reading and sharing KonMari I now had a vision and a plan, my ‘letting go’ muscles were flexed and I was committed to releasing any books that my children were not interested in, including books from my own childhood!


The children were involved completely in culling the books, every bookcase they helped assess what we would and wouldn’t keep. We had ten 6ft bookcases to appraise and averaged culling a bookcase a day, hence why it took two weeks to cull the books. Princess(14) was an amazing support and worked by my side steadily. Each day we would pull all the books off one bookcase, lay them on the pool table, on their edges with spines facing up. We would then call the children to come and select what books they wanted to keep.  As they evaluated the books I instructed the children that they were to keep asking themselves; “Is it worth keeping?” Follow on questions included, “Did you enjoy it, do you recommend keeping for a sibling?”  It was mostly the pre-teens and teens who were able to be of assistance, the younger children didn’t have the familiarity with the books nor sufficient awareness of their own reading tastes. As we have many children of all ages, both genders, a variety of interests and genre preferences we still kept thousands of books but I feel confident that the majority of ‘keep’ books were wise choices.


cull books 3


After the children had selected their books, particularly Princess who was quite diligent in perusing each day’s selection, I would then call Anna Maria(22) to come and select what she felt worthy to add to the keep pile. Anna Maria is the most voracious reader in the family with an eclectic taste in genre, she never judges a book by its cover and has read the majority of the books in this house. So when Anna Maria left books in the throw pile stating that; “she couldn’t ‘get into’ it, they were boring or were ‘so,so,’ ” I was confident in parting with them. Even books that were classics or were on recommended booklists, I reasoned that if Anna Maria wasn’t interested chances were nobody would be, if a book hasn’t been ‘cracked open’ in twenty two years then the likelihood it would be in the future was slim. After all the children had made their selections and recommendations, I perused the remainder, I made an executive decision to keep a few of the books left, but released the majority! ‘Letting go’ became easier and gained momentum, a feeling of peace developed.


Our bookcases are organised into categories, we have bookcases for; history, science, geography, Australian, literature sets, fiction for the older children and for the younger, readers, adult fiction and non-fiction, homeschool resources and children’s and adult Faith titles.  The picture books stand upright in boxes, easy to flip forwards and also grouped into categories; geography, history, Australian, classics and many more. We started with the books we found the least trouble making decisions about, the books most often read, the ones we were most familiar with. Some of these were discarded on the basis of twaddle, not worth keeping, though the bulk of these we kept. We then tackled the shelves that were read less frequently or not really at all, many, many of these went, it became easier parting with books. The homeschooling resources I evaluated once I was well and truly seasoned, I still had remnants of books from mum’s homeschooling days, quality resources but I simply didn’t use them, released! The Faith shelves I procrastinated on appraising as it’s hard to part with Faith books but my muscles were flexed and part I did.


cull books 1


We left the adult cases till last, by that stage PC was ‘champing at the bit’ to contribute and cull his books, KonMari’s advice was true husbands are inspired.  Initially PC wasn’t confident about the book culling, he was anxious lest we give away books that might be worthwhile, but by the time we culled his books he was so keen he gave away an entire 6ft bookcase of books!! All those books that he was going to read in his retirement, twenty years hence, gone! Not to be outdone I was now challenged; those books that were by highly recommended authors I’d had for over ten years and still hadn’t read, clearly I never would. The books with yellow pages, those falling apart, the fluffy books I’d read once, the best sellers I could borrow from the library if I wanted to read again, all gone! A whole bookcase of my books given away too 🙂  We could have been more ruthless in our culling, some of the children’s keep choices wouldn’t have been mine, but I respected their choices, at some stage we may do another cull. I considered not attending any more book sales but that’s not realistic and it’s part of our mother/daughter outings, but I will be far more selective in what I bring home.


In the end I culled eight hundred books!!  After deleting all the books off my book catalogue I sorted the books into categories, placed them in boxes to be easily sorted through and rang a couple of girlfriends.  My friends are as mad about books as I am and they spent an afternoon having a marvelous time sorting through and selecting, they took five boxes of books.  The following day a new homeschooling mama came and I loaded nine boxes of children’s books into her car, for her to peruse at leisure. The remaining five boxes were delivered to the local Rotary Club for their biannual book sale, where the discarded children’s books will also arrive at.


cull books 2


I did it! I successfully culled our library!

Do you have any questions? Big or small, every question is a great question 🙂

Print Friendly, PDF & Email


  • Jennifer Miller

    I’m not following Konmari, but I am at the same point of culling my books. I have several boxes already. I have an April book sale that I’m using as the deadline. I don’t have the wide range of ages, but there are some that were useful at the time, but there aren’t any more coming up the line the need the beginner’s books and such. Thanks for the inspiration.

  • Sherelle

    Ouch! This would’ve been difficult! Especially those books that “they may not be into now, but who knows in a few years?” category. Well done, what a wonderful time reminiscing you must’ve had! Thanks for the memories (and the adventures), books.

    • Erin

      It would have been difficult “in a few years maybe” if I hadn’t already had a number of children in the ‘few years’ category. Yes lots of old friends re-found and put aside to read to the younger children.
      Glad you enjoyed adventuring with us 🙂

  • Marijke

    A couple of years ago, I donated all the the novels I might want to read again in the future, to the local library. I can find them there, so can someone else.
    For the kids we kept some classics and some favourite ones. And like treasure, a large shelve of Dutch books, a bunch of real good cookbooks and quilting books. For us, rotating books (puzzles, toys, games,…) works best in keeping them interesting. After not having seen them for a couple of months, it’s becomes a rediscovering instead of a blind spot.
    I do add a couple of bags with books from the local library to the mix every week, to keep discovering new books and interests. Still a highlight in the week, for all of us…

    • Erin

      My problem with our local library is they don’t always keep the books, but yes you might be lucky to find elsewhere.
      I have a couple of Dutch books to lend you if interested. Rotating is a great way, probably need to employ that approach more myself.

  • Sarah

    Eight hundred! Very impressive. You are right that the momentum builds, and that starting with your own books often ends up motivating a spouse. I think I mentioned we’ve been culling in advance of a move. After a few months of hauling carloads of books and extras to the Salvation Army thrift store, my (always supportive, but not previously involved in decluttering) husband has started walking up to me with items and asking “does this spark joy?” before taking it out to the giveaway box in the garage. We’re also finding that books we really felt we must keep during purges a few years ago can now be released with an easy heart.

    Have you every listened to the A Slob Comes Clean podcast? I sometimes find it fun and motivational when decluttering, although her shows become quite repetitive after episode 20 or so.

    • Erin

      Thanks, I was impressed with myself letting go to that degree. And yes momentum just snowballed. So love hearing about how your decluttering is affecting your husband 🙂 🙂 love his ‘joy’ question!
      It’s funny isn’t it how you get to the stage of letting go, I think it just gets too much sometimes, something has to give.

  • Theresa

    I’m so impressed! I have several boxes of books from my college years that I should probably get rid of… but since they’re packed away in the attic, I have little motivation to actually do it 🙂

    • Erin

      Well when you decide to turn the attic into a craft room or something then I’m sure you’ll be motivated

  • Michaela T

    What did you do about Home ed books from styles that you maybe no longer use? I have lots of ‘how to’ books, some valuable now as out of print, but I don’t use them at present as we have switched over to Charlotte Mason, but I have trouble letting the other books from say Classical education, and other methods, go. But honestly, some I haven’t looked at since I first read them. How did you decide what to keep and what went from these kind of books?

    • Erin

      I’m afraid I wasn’t very ruthless here, I kept these books. As you say they are classics, and they were a pivotable part of my journey. And my children may well homeschool and these may be of use to them. So haven’t managed to be ruthless here. I focused on easy to decide books for the time being.

  • Michaela T

    Sorry I realise I did not say thank you so much, I really found your Kon Mari posts inspiring and helpful 😀

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.