In August 2018 Jem and Bass received the Sacrament of Confirmation, at the time the boys were 9 and 7 years old. This meant Bass was my youngest child I’d prepared to receive this Sacrament. Previously Jelly Bean at 9 was my youngest child to prepare for Confirmation and I’d already adjusted previously used materials. With both boys being so young much of our previous resources no longer suited. So I sought and found new resources I was far happier with.
Preparing our children for the reception of their Sacraments is amongst the most precious responsibilities as Catholic parents entrusted to us. This is an undertaking that we spend several months upon, Confirmation preparation involves discussion, study and spiritual preparation, sharing in the hope to help other families searching for resources.
Know & Do:
- To read the Bible account of the descent of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost
- To read Bible accounts of the presence and ‘calling upon’ of the Holy Spirit
- To know what sanctifying grace is
- To know the Apostle’s Creed
- To know and understand about the Blessed Trinity
- To know and understand about the Incarnation
- To know and understand more fully each of the Seven Sacraments
- To know what is Chrism Oil
- To know what is the Confirmation Seal
- To be familiar with the responses of the Rite of Confirmation
- To read several saints stories and child to choose their Confirmation saint
- Choose a sponsor
- To understand that the Apostles received the gift of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost
- To understand that the Apostles have handed on of the gift of the Holy Spirit to their successors the bishops
- To understand the succession of bishops has continued through the history of the Church, to our present Bishop
- To understand that generally the Bishop administers the Sacrament of Confirmation
- To understand Confirmation is a deepening of the grace of Baptism (unites us more closely to God the Father, makes us more faithful to Jesus, increases the gifts of the Holy Spirit in us, renders our bond with the Church more perfect, gives us special strength from the Holy Spirit to spread and defend the faith, a witness of Christ)
- To understand that Confirmation is a Sacrament of Initiation (and to know all three Sacraments of Initiation)
- To understand and memorise the fruits of the Holy Spirit
- To understand and memorise the gifts of the Holy Spirit
- To understand how these fruits and gifts help us live our Christian lives
- To understand what we profess in the Apostle’s Creed
- To understand the significance of ‘The Sign of the Cross, the anointing, the blow’ during the Confirmation Rite
- To understand the 4 conditions for the Reception of Confirmation (Profession of Faith, in state of Grace, intention to receive Confirmation, be a disciple and witness of Christ)
- To understand what a Witness of Christ means and entails
- 7 Gifts of the Holy Spirit
- 12 Fruits of the Holy Spirit
- 10 Commandments
- 7 Sacraments
- 6 Church Precepts
- 7 Works of Mercy
- 3 Theological virtues
Prayers to Know:
- Apostles Creed
- Come, O Holy Spirit
Prayers to Review:
- Our Father
- Hail Mary
- Glory Be
- Act of Contrition
Whilst we had prepared 7 children prior to the boys for Confirmation, I’ve searched in vain for the book! I’ve haven’t found it yet but I feel as if we are hitting closer to the mark with our choices. Meanwhile we rely on Bible passages, catechism questions, knowledge materials and this time we added some successful spiritual reads. I have a few others listed at the end for more time permitting and for the older child.
I was concurrently preparing Bass to make his First Confession, then his Confirmation, and shortly after he would make his First Holy Communion. So some of the material he needed to know was cross covered with his Confession and Communion preparations.
The boys also read various saint stories, picture and chapter, from which they chose their Confirmation saints/names.
– Story of the descent of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost
– Other Bible accounts of the presence and ‘calling upon’ of the Holy Spirit. Interestingly my childhood copy of the Golden Bible says, ‘Catholic Children’s’ which is the exact same copy as the Golden Children’s Bible.
Sacrament of Confirmation Workbook
A 30 page workbook, with excerpts from the Bible and the CCC. Read and answer the various exercises, a great way to be sure to cover the basics.
Compilation of 4 of Biffi’s books; Prayer, Apostles Creed, Sacraments and Ten Commandments. Excellent for understanding of the truths in the Apostles Creed, deeper understanding of the Sacraments and Ten Commandments.
Preparing a child who was only 7 years old, I was keen that he really understood what he was professing. This book was perfect for forming the core basis of our study.
We read various selections from this book both for knowledge and spiritual preparation.
New Saint Joseph Baltimore Catechism 1
We’ve long enjoyed reading the Baltimore Catechism.
We read the questions and answers that related to Confirmation and chat about the material.
We use for the Catechism questions, Gospel Highlights and Mass Responses for Confirmation.
Rather dry but a quick revision gives me the confidence that we’ve covered all the highlights.
Knowledge and Spiritual Preparation:
I recommend the following although unfortunately we didn’t have time to read any. Though our independent and older children have enjoyed these in the past.
(The Catechism of the Seven Sacraments we are currently reading)
The First Sacraments – Inos Biffi
Aimed at the older child, very detailed and thorough with plenty of historical information.
An engaging, living catechism. I have read previously with older children and it is excellent. The boys would have been fine with this, particularly Jem but I simply ran out of time.
A solid explanation covering Creation to Salvation and the importance of God’s sanctifying grace. Set in a comic book format with hundreds of colour photos and a glossary of Catholic definitions. Sheds light on the parallels between the Old and New Testament and the sacraments instituted by Christ.
King of the Golden City- Mother Mary Loyola
A wonderful allegory, spiritually reflective. Really beautiful and highly recommended by our older children.
My Path to Heaven – Fr Geoffrey Bliss
A mini-spiritual retreat, really enjoyed by our older children who have used this.
A book that explains, in the most original and engaging manner, what Confirmation does.
Catholic Bible: Revised Standard Version (Ignatius)
Always a Confirmation gift for each of our children. We researched thoroughly before deciding upon this publication.